The Chick Class Hunter is Being Filial - Chapter 75
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Chick Class Hunter is Being Filial! Episode 75
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*cafe: HN District Elegant Moms’ Gathering*
[Title: Guidance for Affectionate 4-Year-Old Prodigy]
Author: Du Gru
I am a Guardian raising a 4-year-old girl.
The child is bright and has strong growth desires and altruism, so she often lies or shows reckless behavior.
Since she’s superior to her peers, she clearly understands the intent of scolding words, but to get out of situations, she acts cute or apologizes while begging to be hugged or petted.
In situations where the child clearly recognizes her wrongdoing, is it helpful to hug and comfort her?
Since she’s already a child who reads the room a lot, I’m curious how to scold her so she doesn’t become intimidated while not repeating the same mistakes.
[Comments]
I Am Your Mother: Four-year-olds are so cute you can’t even scold them lol
How are the grandparents?
If the grandparents are strict, sometimes we leave disciplining to them temporarily lol
Our kid also listens well saying grandma and grandfather are scary~~~
Du Gru: It hasn’t been long since we resumed contact with grandfather, and he’s originally not helpful.
I Am Your Mother: Ah.. right.. these days everyone has their own circumstances…
Top1%GeniusMom: That must be a characteristic of right-brained gifted children~ My child is exceptional too so I understand ㅜㅜ My kid scored in the top 1% on the K-WPPSI~ They know exactly how to melt mommy and daddy’s hearts~ So clever~!! Still, I’m grateful that my child doesn’t get into trouble.. You must be worried..^^
Du Gru: Yes
On Jurim: Just scolding is not enough, firm discipline is important!! You need to stop Mind Reading!!
These days everyone doesn’t discipline at all saying they’re nurturing the child’s spirit, and I’m worried about it all;;
Du Gru: Why is your username On Jurim? What is Mind Reading?
On Jurim: Huh? It just happened to be on TV so I used it..
Du Gru: It was just a personal curiosity, nothing important. Don’t mind it. I don’t know what Mind Reading is so I don’t do it either. Since this wasn’t a proper answer, I hope other people will leave comments.
On Jurim: Excuse me, Du Gru mom.
Du Gru: I’m not a mom.
Onjurim: What are you doing right now, Dugeuru Mom ㅡ,.ㅡ It’s not like you’re picking a fight or anything;;
Du Gru: I said I’m not because I’m not a mom, is that a problem?
On Jurim: Then you must be a dad.. no wonder your tone sounds like a man’s, really..
Du Gru: I’m not a dad either, I’m a Guardian.
Onjurim: Excuse me ㅡ,.ㅡ;; Are you kidding me?
Du Gru: Which part seemed like a joke to you?
On Jurim: No.. you’re talking about your daughter right now, right?
Du Gru: That’s correct. As written in the main post, it’s about the 4-year-old girl I’m raising.
On Jurim: But what’s with calling yourself a Guardian to your daughter??? I really don’t know what weird cult parenting theory Du Gru mom picked up! Don’t do that in front of the child!!
At four years old, mom and dad are their whole world. To such a daughter, you’re neither mom nor dad?? Just a Guardian??? With that attitude, how confused must the child be!! Rather than disciplining the child, it would be better for the adult to fix their attitude first!!
ENFP Mom: Du Gru mom, are you perhaps a T?
Du Gru: My tier is S.
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Mom cafe user On Jurim, Park Mirim left a lengthy comment and pressed the enter key hard.
She had responded to the mom cafe villain, Du Gru, who had suddenly appeared.
From the first comment where she started picking a fight about her nickname being On Jurim, the feeling hadn’t been good.
‘Are you an On Jurim fan or what?’
She had just chosen On Jurim because it was amusing that the last character of the name was the same.
Not only that. With an annoying tone, she didn’t hesitate to claim herself as a guardian, neither mom nor dad.
How could this person act like that toward their daughter?
Whether Du Gru was a mom, papa, or guardian. She was worried if someone with such a mindset could even raise a child properly.
Just then, her daughter Harry ran into the kitchen and clung to her waist.
“Mommy, mommy, what are you doing?”
“We need to have dinner now. What about your toys? Did you put them all away?”
“Yeah! Where’s daddy?”
“Daddy’s running late. Let’s eat dinner just the two of us today.”
“Okay. Oh, mommy. Tomorrow Gru said he wants to see mommy. You have to come looking pretty.”
“Gru did?”
Gru was Harry’s kindergarten friend.
She had received a warning from the kindergarten asking for guidance at home as well since Harry was bullying Gru at kindergarten, so it was a child she felt indebted to.
When she asked the kindergarten to connect her so she could contact Gru’s parents to apologize, the only response she got back was ‘It’s fine now, so please just make sure to guide her well so it doesn’t happen again.’
“Still, I feel so sorry that I’d like to contact them directly and apologize.”
“Well, Gru’s parents said that since it was resolved within the school, personal contact isn’t necessary. They said there’s no reason for adults to exchange apologies over children’s matters…”
“Ah, I see…”
Even just hearing it through the teacher, she could feel the cold distance.
She had only heard that he was at an orphanage and had recently been adopted into a good home.
‘Is this okay?’
If it had been any other family, they would have called immediately.
Even she was stamping her feet anxiously like this, but Gru’s family, who were the actual victims of the bullying, felt rather dry and distant like sand.
She was somewhat worried about whether Gru would be okay in his adoptive family.
“Alright, mommy always goes out looking pretty anyway. Harry, come out for a bit. Let mommy pack this.”
Park Mirim hurriedly packed the storybook set she had bought for tomorrow.
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The next day.
Among the Chick Class mothers, Jurim sat in a children’s chair with a languid expression.
Everyone kept glancing at the sight of the tall man uncomfortably crammed into the children’s chair.
“We… we weren’t prepared enough on our end!”
Jung Yuni, the homeroom teacher of Saebom Kindergarten’s Chick Class, had turned pale as she pulled out her own chair.
“Guild Master On, please sit here.”
“It’s fine.”
It doesn’t look fine at all though.
Among the small-framed mothers, Jurim truly looked like he was being crushed, which was the perfect way to describe it.
“I think it would be better if you sat down…”
“Yes, please do that.”
“Please sit over there, Guild Master On.”
When all the mothers urged him to sit, Jurim finally got up leisurely and sat in the adult chair.
As if accustomed to the gazes directed at him, he crossed his legs with a nonchalant expression and fiddled with his mobile phone.
The man who least belonged in the colorful kindergarten had even more tremendous destructive power in person than on screen.
Jung Yuni noticed that the mothers’ gazes couldn’t leave Guild Master On, so she decided to finish quickly before ruining countless perfectly fine families.
“Then please sit here comfortably and wait just a moment.”
While Yuni headed to the front of the classroom, Park Mirim arrived late carrying a thick shopping bag.
“Hello. I’m Harry’s mom.”
“Harry’s mother, welcome. You can sit in the back there.”
“Um, did Gru’s parents come too by any chance? I wanted to apologize about what happened last time.”
“Ah… Gru’s father… Yes, he came.”
“His father?”
Since weekdays had to be cleared, it was usually moms who came to kindergarten on days like this, so it was rare for just the dad to come alone rather than both parents, which surprised her a bit.
“You’ll know when you see him. Over there…”
A man sitting alone where Jung Yuni pointed was looking at his mobile phone with his legs crossed.
Park Mirim blinked her eyes a couple of times after confirming his face.
“…?”
Park Mirim looked back at the teacher with a dumbfounded expression. It meant whether that was really correct.
Yuni nodded to confirm it for her.
“Guild Master On Jurim is Gru’s father.”
Bewildered by information she had never heard before, Mirim looked down at her daughter.
“Harry, about Gru’s house… Why didn’t you tell me…?”
“Huh? Mom didn’t ask me!”
Why would I ask that! Mirim beat her chest while looking at her daughter.
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